PERFECTIONISM THERAPY IN NEW YORK CITY
Support for when nothing ever feels “good enough”
Perfectionism can look like ambition or high standards on the outside, but internally it often feels exhausting, anxious, and never quite satisfying. Therapy offers space to soften that pressure and build a more compassionate, sustainable way of relating to yourself.
New York Therapist
WHAT ARE THE SIGNS OF PERFECTIONISM?
You may appear driven and accomplished while internally feeling anxious, critical, or afraid of slowing down. The bar keeps moving, rest feels undeserved, and mistakes feel personal.
Do You Identify with These?
- You’re extremely hard on yourself, even when you succeed
- You overthink decisions or avoid starting for fear of doing it “wrong”
- You struggle to relax without guilt or anxiety
- You tie your self-worth to productivity or achievement
- You fear letting people down or being seen as inadequate
- You push past exhaustion instead of listening to your body
- You feel burnt out, tense, or emotionally drained
- Nothing ever quite feels “enough,” no matter how much you do
Perfectionism isn’t something to get rid of. It often comes from parts of you that learned to be vigilant, capable, or high-achieving in order to stay safe, loved, or valued. Therapy helps you understand where those patterns came from and gently loosen their grip.
Our work focuses on slowing down the nervous system, increasing emotional awareness, and building self-compassion without asking you to abandon the parts of you that care deeply, strive, and show up fully. Together, we help you create space for rest, flexibility, and authenticity alongside growth.
How We Work With Perfectionism
REDUCED SELF-CRITICISM AND INTERNAL PRESSURE
GREATER EASE AROUND REST, MISTAKES, AND UNCERTAINTY
HEALTHIER MOTIVATION WITHOUT BURNOUT
INCREASED SELF-COMPASSION AND EMOTIONAL SAFETY
BENEFITS OF PERFECTIONISM THERAPY
TAILORED EVIDENCE-BASED THERAPY FOR PERFECTIONISM
We take an integrative, evidence-based approach that supports both insight and nervous system regulation. Therapy may explore the emotional roots of perfectionism, including shame, attachment patterns, and early expectations, while also offering practical tools to interrupt overwork and self-judgment.
Ready to stop measuring your worth by what you produce?
You don’t have to earn rest, ease, or self-acceptance. If perfectionism is running your life or leaving you exhausted, we’re here to help.
