DO YOU RECOGNIZE YOURSELF IN THIS?

Self-doubt and negative self-talk are so common they can start to feel like just the way you are — like a personality trait rather than something that developed for a reason. But the inner critic usually has an origin. It learned to keep you safe, manage expectations, or stay connected to people who required a certain version of you. Therapy is where you start to understand where it came from and where it stops running the show.

Do you identify with these?

  • You work hard but never quite feel like enough, no matter what you achieve
  • You apologize constantly, over-explain yourself, or shrink to make others comfortable
  • You compare yourself to others and always seem to come up short
  • You're your own harshest critic - and you'd never talk to someone else the way you talk to yourself
  • You find it hard to receive compliments, set limits, or ask for what you need
  • There's a version of yourself you want to be and a gap between that and how you actually feel day to day

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The stories you tell yourself about your worth, your body, and your place in the world didn't come from nowhere. We work to understand their origins - the early messages, relationships, and experiences that shaped how you see yourself - and build something more grounded and true in their place.

The inner critic isn't the enemy. Understanding it is the work.

You stop needing external validation to feel okay

The inner critic gets quieter - and less believable

You take up the space you actually deserve


What changes with therapy

our approach

We take an integrative approach drawing from psychodynamic therapy, CBT, somatic work, and attachment-informed treatment — to understand what shaped your self-perception and help you build a more secure relationship with yourself.

You deserve to actually like yourself.

If something on this page resonated, that's worth paying attention to. Book a free 15-minute call - no pressure, just a conversation to see if we're a good fit.

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complex trauma

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depression

anxiety

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